You have to be willing to lose the competition in order to win the match.
You become too rigid when your mind is set on an outcome. So if you’re competing and you feel like you must win, then you’ll tighten in response to this and try to control the outcome. But the way to have the most precision, is to remain calm and stay loose.
So the only way to win is to let go of the need to win.
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