The value of accidental self improvement can’t be emphasized enough.
When you chase after a goal, even if it’s something you’re worried might be shallow, if you really want it and you’re excited to get it then you’ll do extreme things to get there.
And doing hard things teaches you lessons.
So if you want something but you’re holding yourself back because of a belief that you’ll be shallow if you care too much about that thing.
Then you’re depriving yourself of the better person you could become if you let yourself go on a journey toward the exciting things you care about.
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